Taking the time to check in with yourself like this is super healthy. Keep it up! Different people feel comfortable with different things at different times in their lives. This is ridiculous and totally false. Explain that guys can have a complicated relationship to sex just like girls do. Show her this column, if you want.
You Asked It: My GF Wants Sex. I Don’t.
You Need Help: So Your Girlfriend Never Ever Ever Wants To Have Sex | Autostraddle
But first, an email from a guy who is going through this exact same problem. About six months ago my girlfriend started making excuses every time I tried to kiss her or get close to her. She would tell me that she was busy or that she was feeling tired. I tried doing things around the house to make her feel better and less stressed.
What to do if your partner doesn't want to have sex
Written by SpunOut View this authors Twitter page and posted in life. For many people, sex is an important part of intimacy in a relationship. However, not everyone feels the same way about sex.
Everywhere I look, people preach that passionless long-term relationships and marriages are inevitable. Women supposedly lose their desires while men are forever frustrated. They claim you have to accept your miserable fate and learn to laugh about it. There are so many couples where both parties feel unfulfilled. And it got me thinking…why is that?